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Declaration of Independence

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Yesterday I reclaimed my maiden name. I had a lot of well-thought-out reasons for keeping my ex’s last name after my divorce. Most of them were related to authenticity and convenience and had nothing to do with him. I stick … Continue reading

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Fallout

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The whole 11/11 thing was fun, but I’m glad to see November go. More than any other month, November is packed with marriage-relatedĀ datesĀ and emotional landmines for me. Compared to how I felt last year, this year was barely a blip … Continue reading

Posted in divorce, grief

Two Sides to Every Story

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I’ve written before about “living in the tension.” One of my current tensions is between independence and loneliness. On one hand, I honestly don’t know how a man could make me happier than I already am. I have never known … Continue reading

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Things I Love About My Life

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I loved being married, even when it was difficult. All things being equal, I would still prefer to be married. But I’m truly thankful for many aspects of my single-again life – things I couldn’t fully appreciate when I was … Continue reading

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One Year

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It’s been one year today since my ex-husband left and effectively ended our marriage. Divorce is a horrible, soul-rending experience, and I never would have chosen it. But through it all, God has been right there with me and has … Continue reading

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